Il arrive que des amis fassent des choix ou des choses que l’on juge inacceptables. Certains de ces choix ne mettent pas leur santé en danger (comme se teindre les cheveux en bleu), mais d'autres, oui (comme sortir avec une personne manipulatrice).
Si une ou un ami à toi se comporte dangereusement, préviens un adulte de confiance : c’est important! Si une ou un ami à toi fait quelque chose de dommageable pour sa santé (comme prendre de la drogue ou avoir des rapports sexuels non protégés), pour sa sécurité (comme rencontrer des personnes qu’il ou elle connaît seulement par Internet), pour sa vie intime (comme tricher son partenaire) ou son avenir (comme envoyer des photos ou des vidéos nues à d'autres personnes), tu dois lui dire comment tu te sens. Dis-lui que votre amitié compte beaucoup pour toi et que tu veux son bien, mais que son comportement t’inquiète. Si tu n’arrives pas à lui parler en personne à propos des risques auxquels il ou elle s’expose, essaie le courriel.
Si ton ami ou amie ne t’écoute pas et continue de se livrer à des comportements dangereux ou inappropriés, tu dois faire intervenir un adulte de confiance. Il ou elle sera peut-être furieux contre toi pour avoir agi de la sorte, mais les vrais amis savent intervenir quand la sécurité d’une ou d’un ami est en jeu. Ton ami ou amie ne sera pas furieux contre toi pour toujours. Préviens un adulte de confiance de ce qui se passe et demande-lui de vous aider tous les deux.
i am kinda worried about a friend because we were wacthing a movie and she started giving dirty looks and then she goes and gets someone else in. What will i do !!!!!!!!! help me
if you have a friend that always gives you dirty looks she obviously isnt a true friend ask her tell her you were woried that she was mad at you (i hope it wasnt me)
well what do u mean getting someone else in??
well she was gettin other people to help her out being mean to me
some times i get really worried about 1 of my friends. people gang up on her alot and she gets mad at me. if u have advice piz post
well stand up for her. even if you go down with her. you should know that you helped her
i totally think thats a good idea sandalic630 cause if your her true friend you would do anything for her :) !!!
ya getting really obsesed with justin bieber. its really annoying.i dont want her to be like this other girl who has 150+ posters of him . my bf has 32 but i hope she does not get any more. she also has a blanket,cd,posters,clothes,bookes and much more but if she gets more i will still like her fore who she is.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hey thats me i have 300 posters but still yeah
I've got a friend who is doing drugs now,she just decided to recently, but even her new friends agree with me that she shouldn't but she doesn't listen to me when I try to talk to her, what am I supposed to do.
if you are a true friend you will stick with her/him.
It sounds like you are worried about your friend. Talking to her about your concerns, like you have done, is a good idea. If she is continuing to engage in these behaviors, you may want to confide in a safe adult like a parent or teacher. Another option is to contact textED.ca through the Need Help Now link. We may be able to provide you with some additional guidance regarding your concerns.
tell a teacher or parents. You should tell the friend that you dont like what she is doing
i tatally agree:)
i had to tell my parents abut a problem and it worked out way better than not telling them!!
good idea!!