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Fitting In

Connecting with others at school and feeling accepted as part of “the group” often feels like the most important thing in the world. Sometimes it can be really hard to fit in. Whether you are the most popular person or the least popular person, it can be a constant struggle to be liked by others. Sometimes it can feel like one false move and you end up being rejected or ridiculed. The need to fit in can be super stressful.

While it’s difficult now, always know that you need to be true to yourself. Be respectful of your peers and don’t put up with friends who are disrespectful, mean or rude to other kids. This means not making fun of others or being mean to those who don’t fit in. When you mistreat others, it really only ends up making you feel bad about yourself. Committing to being respectful to others will help you, and the people around you, to feel more comfortable.

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What about you? Do you know people who have a hard time fitting in? Do you know people who are mean to others who have a hard time fitting in?
Anonymous wrote:
February 8, 2012 11:51 am

well u seee there not real friends so ignore them try to see ur friends from ur previous school :)

sandalic630 wrote:
September 10, 2011 1:28 pm

i have a question for you . what do you do if you move to a new school and everyone says that they are friends but they talk about you behind your back.



or i kinda wanted to join the chior but then they said they were in it. and then 1 other friend sayid she d was never. and then i saw her face like " like play along with me". GET IT. HELP ME I DO NOT NO WHAT TO DO. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! help me

(Declined) wrote:
November 22, 2011 1:53 pm

ya i know how you feel well i felt the same way too

tangy66 wrote:
May 3, 2011 5:04 pm

some people try too hard to be cool. It makes me feel bad about myself. What should I do?

Anonymous wrote:
February 3, 2012 10:13 am

be yourself!! not someone you're pretending to be!!! i sometimes feel that way too. Just shake it off. Say this 3 times a day "i am beautiful the way i am" it helps

Clo97 wrote:
April 12, 2011 8:01 am

Hey, i hate people who try to be cool. y can't they be theirself

Anonymous wrote:
October 29, 2011 8:45 am

They just think that they are popular and the best person in the world. Most of them are perfect. Nobody is perfect. Be your ownself

Anonymous wrote:
April 5, 2011 1:38 pm

hello

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