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Deciding Who to Tell

When you have a secret you need to tell, deciding which adult you want to talk to about it is an important first step. You need to feel that the adult you are going to share your secret with is safe and will be able to help you out.

There are many adults who might be able to help you: a teacher, a counselor, a parent, another family member, a friend's parents, etc.

Once you have decided who you feel comfortable talking to, it can still be really difficult to actually tell them what’s going on. Some ways to make this a little bit easier include:

  • Writing them a note or an email explaining what’s happening and asking for their help.
  • Having a friend there while you speak with the safe adult about your concerns.

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Who would you talk to?
alisean wrote:
December 10, 2011 9:21 pm

a friend is someone who is there when you need help and someone who will be with you at all times if your friend is not realy like that you need to find a new friend !!!!!!!

Anonymous wrote:
January 10, 2012 1:06 pm

exactly my best friend has a friend at school but i dont think she should be friends with her because her frien is talking about her behide her back and about me to and i dont even know her :(

chelsealovesyou wrote:
December 10, 2011 9:18 pm

the one time i was telling my friend a secret and she said i PROMISE i wont tell but than the next day everyone in my grade new what do i do do i trust this person yes or no give me some advise :)

Anonymous wrote:
January 10, 2012 1:10 pm

now that she spreded the rumors dont talk to her and tell the teacher that what i would do

Anonymous wrote:
January 10, 2012 1:08 pm

i would just tell her i dont really want to be your friend anymore if your not going to keep really good promises i tell you

Anonymous wrote:
January 10, 2012 1:09 pm

but other then that dont let her ruin your day by bringing you down

emi9 wrote:
September 9, 2011 7:48 pm

some people need to make storys not boring

hellow wrote:
January 14, 2012 9:05 am

i know like why could int they have a place where you can bring random things up

glitterglamormonster wrote:
June 11, 2011 2:31 am

i'd rather keep my secret to myself.

Anonymous wrote:
January 10, 2012 1:10 pm

same

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May 2, 2011 11:44 am

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cassy wrote:
November 14, 2011 11:48 am

not even close ewwwws enrique all the way js :p

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